Friday, 17 December 2021

3 Facets Of Deception - Inclination, Intent And Distribution

The 3 facets of deception are

Inclination
Intent
Distribution

These three facets cross-over, depending on whether the primary consideration it towards self or another

Inclination

To be lead, ingratiated or fed a line into deception

A woman receives an anonymous bunch of flowers. She asks someone, who didn't send the flowers, if the flowers are from them

The person answers "no", they didn't send the flowers. But at the same time, smiles and acts coy, as to give the impression that they actually did send the flowers, when they didn't
 
 
CONSIDERATION UNTO SELF

Intent

A woman receives an anonymous bunch of flowers

Someone who didn't send her the flowers, intentionally gives the her the impression that he did. Smiling and acting coy while saying things like "Gee, I wonder who sent them?"

Creating the perception that he sent the flowers, when the woman had no consideration to such prior

Distribution

A woman receives an anonymous bunch of flowers

Nobody comes forward to take credit for sending the flowers. So a man openly lies, telling her that he sent the flowers, when he didn't

These things work in reverse, when the consideration is unto another person

CONSIDERATION UNTO OTHERS

Inclination

A woman asks a man if the dress she is wearing makes her butt look big

The man tells her that it doesn't. Even though he thinks that it does

Intent

A woman asks a man if the dress she is wearing makes her butt look big

The man thinks that it does. But tells her that she looks great in everything she wears, and disingenuously fills her with praises and flatters her, trying to make her feel good about herself and what she is wearing, whilst distracting her from the answer

Or the man will otherwise distract her from the question, within things such as humour about how unqualified he is to make such assessments (or other things similar to this). Within which, the man will avoid answering the question

Distribution

A woman asks a man if the dress she is wearing makes her butt look big

The man thinks that it does, so he tells the woman that he thinks that it does. But, he does it in such a way, as to overemphasis the fact he is being honest with her

The important consideration here, is the reference to "giving an honest answer"

It is fine to be honest with a wife, partner, or someone you are close with, and tell them that something doesn't look good on them. But when it is offered, painted as virtue, you should be wary

Someone may give a reasoning of being honest, if they are pushed as to why they would gives such a (nasty or mean) answer. But if the consideration of honesty and virtue is offered within the initial answer itself, it can show calculated deception

Those who are often or invariably deceptive, can find great pleasure in given opportunities to be openly honest

If they seem proud of the fact they are being honest, or seek some type of validation for it, it is likely that they are often (or regularly) deceptive in other aspects of their life

Consider, that these traits generally cross-over, depending on whether it is consideration towards self, or another

Someone who is likely to use "Inclination" when it comes to taking credit for something like sending flowers, is likely to use "Distribution" when it comes to something like consideration of another, asking a question about a dress

While, someone who is inclined to use "Distribution" when it comes to taking credit for something like sending flowers, is likely to use "Inclination" when it comes to something like consideration of another, asking a question about a dress